So...you say she's pretty, beautiful or attractive.
She says.. He's hot..sexy..smart...bright or other things.
All are ingredients of sexiness, sensuality, romance,
passion, love...and sensing a desire from within, i.e.
turn-ons, that draw us toward someone, or the lack of
these and other qualities cause us not to respond.
When we're truly convinced, the other person might be
what or who we want, a heart of "CONVICTION' moves
us towards another person and the "I'm attracted" to you"
mind-set seems to ignite what may be a meaningful
relationship.
When two people are at the "She's pretty and he's handsome
marks, romance and passion begin by causing us to focus on
someone other than ourselves. A desire to be with a special
somebody, others that those of the past may continue to
blossom and reveal the fruits of authenticity, sooner or later.
There is no exact formula for a relationship of romance and
passion. I would like to suggest that truth can take you a
long way. Surface romance, passion, sensuality and sex-appeal
can change in a matter of seconds. Then what?
Yeah, she's pretty...then what?
Okay...he's handsome...and?
Suppose a near-fatal accident suddenly changes your entire world?
Can romance and passion handle that?
Considering many possibilities might be helpful...no, I'm sure they will.
So what qualities in another do you seek?
What qualities will remain a "must" for you in a relationship of intimacy?
There are no secret formulas....or no magic wands.
Like others...
You'll have to travel the yellow brick road.
David Hammock. Copyright 2012. All Rights Reserved.
